I saw a tiktok and I found a new motto: People who know me well enough can talk about me because I know they won't talk smack. If you don't have my phone number, then you don't know me well enough ✨

Reposting some stuff to bump down the negative content- apologies for the mess. I stand by what I did and won't delete the thread but I am tired of looking at it.

I'm still on break. I'm okay. This was the best decision I've ever made. Idk how I'll feel when I come back. Tbh I don't trust anyone.

Not to mention she's known him for what, a few months, vs my 6 years? I think I know what the fuck I'm talking about

Also the irony of calling me a whore when her man was paying to be in my DMs. 💀 Like none of her words hurt. They just make her and him look so much worse.

Please keep reporting this account, absolutely nothing has been done. The intentional misgendering and blatant bigotry shouldn’t be something these people get away with.

Mavis 👑🌙 @sailormavis.bsky.social

I'm now being harassed by either Lobster or his partner, including intentional misgendering and ableism. Block @lunargirlsamess.bsky.social

21 November

Not everyone has access to healthcare. Not everyone can afford to spend money on therapy. That is a privilege you have, and it is not a given right to every other person. I feel like he knows this, but he tells me this to be insulting- especially framed as "advice" which was completely unwelcome.

I also need to add: Insulting me and saying I should go to therapy (I have, multiple times, when I could afford it) while knowing I am not in a financially stable situation is classist. And his remarks about me going to a psych ward are nothing short of disgusting.

Everything speaks for itself.

i just can't, it's so funny. abusers always prove me right

"get therapy!"

me after being in therapy for 8+ months when i could afford it and unpacking stuff + both of my therapists complimenting me for being a good person and putting in the work to grow:

????????????????????

Like I'm so over this online bullshit. Maybe don't fuck with me and I won't come for you??? Especially if you're saying bigoted shit to me and lowkey threatening me with violence? Dig that deeper grave, fr.

The wording on this is so insanely bigoted. Straight up ableism, racism, borderline eugenics. "Before you're ever allowed back into society"? That's intentional.

You also call me a whore while your man was also paying to be in my DMs, and disrespecting me at that... make it make sense?

I'm supposed to be on break- I intend to stick to that.

Alright, I have more important things to attend to!

I'll continue to post proof when needed and when it's provided to me by others, but I have said my piece and if I experience further harassment I am 100% serious and already looking into my options to protect myself legally.

I'm okay and will be.

Sending support and healing <3

Proof that Lobster was banned in another community, and did not seem to get the hint that he was unwelcome by donating to the person's kofi:

"was banned nearly a month earlier than when i got the donation (i also had him blocked everywhere around the same time as his ban. same day i believe)"

I am not checking my DMs for further edits, this is intentional emotional distress inflicted upon me. This has affected my income, and I can and will seek legal counsel if this continues.

You refused to let me move on, and chose to harass me- so now everyone will see what you are.

It is blatant bigotry, blatant fucking ableism. So YOU can be disabled, but god forbid I have RSD and I set boundaries and I'm hurt by your "partner" and his actions.

Please, please get in touch with reality.

I only spoke up because I'm tired of being abused and people stalking me

It's wild how when met with the consequences of their actions, they tell me to "seek therapy" and "I don't belong in society"

Also calling me a whore when YOUR MAN was PAYING to be in my DMs, and being disrespectful at that.

I will not be silenced and you do not scare me. I'll be looking into legal action if I'm harassed any further.

Hi, please report this person for harassment, misgendering, and ableism! Thanks!

I'm now being harassed by either Lobster or his partner, including intentional misgendering and ableism. Block @lunargirlsamess.bsky.social

Fuck abluelobster, and fuck any predators and racists. If you associate with him it's a block on sight.

He is a misogynist, he put his whiteness first to abuse me (I am Indigenous. He knows this and witnessed several people being racist to me) and pretended to be in my corner when I have zero doubts he was actually talking and feeding info to the very same people who abused me.

He lied to my face.

So yeah, this is a grown fucking man, who should know better, who DID know better and even SELF DEPRECATED IN TONE TAGS when confronted and asked to act like a respectful human being, something he is clearly incapable of toward women and fem-presenting people.

It's also worth noting he is 45 years old (I think this is shown in earlier DM posted above). He guilt tripped me on his birthday after violating my boundaries about surprise gifts, and then attempted to ruin mine with his hatefulness. He is an abuser, full stop, and his accusations are projection.

Please be aware that this is Lobster, and block/avoid him at all costs.

fansly.com/MeGrokGrokSm...
@abluelobster.bsky.social
twitter.com/abluelobster
twitch.tv/a_blue_lobster

Stay safe, this man is legitimately dangerous.

He is also very ableist, based on him telling me I would end up in a psych ward from my "mental health crises". And he also gave me hateful "advice" to further reinforce that he has ZERO respect for my boundaries. He told me to seek therapy- I have been, for months, almost a year. He JUST started.

Lobster fetishized me, treated me like a sex object, and then made me feel unsafe. Then he had the audacity to call me a narcissist (language he knows is harmful due to my history) because I decided to delete my half of our DMs BECAUSE I FELT UNSAFE & did not want him having info/access to me.

Additionally, when I came out as polyamorous years ago, he immediately rushed to tell me that he was in love with me and wanted me to be his partner. I said absolutely not, we are not compatible and he has not even bothered to ask about mine and my current partner's boundaries. He was predatory.

For context: We met on a NSFW roleplaying site, and looking back, he always pushed my boundaries from day one. He would seem nice at first but I realize he manipulated me and groomed me for abuse. He is a core example of why fem-presenting POC like myself DO NOT trust white cis men.

His excuse for treating me this way was that he was "dealing with a really traumatic move." I do not care what the reason is, you do not fetishize me and brazenly ignore and stomp on my boundaries. He is upset that his actions have consequences.

At one point he sent me a lewd voice clip without asking me if it was ok first. I did not listen to it, I chewed him out and told him I would not entertain anything of that kind unless he paid me, that is what sex work IS.

At one point all he wanted to talk to me about was my sex work/persona.

Lobster never asked me what I was okay with VS not okay with. He spoke to me in a vulgar manner despite me using a Dom persona for my sex work. I had to remind him several times to be respectful of the dynamic and rules that I had set. He was *disgusting* and incredibly disrespectful.

On Fansly, Lobster was an awful client. My SW account is @lunaeamor.bsky.social and I am very open about doing SW. It is empowering for me and a way to take back my trauma after being a CSA + grooming survivor that would violate my privacy in retaliation. Lobster 100% did this.

I have several friends who he also creeped on, but they are not my stories to tell. I am currently waiting for a friend to get home to share DMs from Lobster where he vented about me to them, and talked about me sexually. I keep my SFW and NSFW separate out of courtesy and for privacy/safety.

after Lobster decided to willingly associate with them as SOON as I cut him off for being a creep.

I unblocked him and confronted him on my main account, because I was sick of him abusing me behind the scenes. As soon as he saw my posts, he blocked me instantly. He is guilty.

they both used me for clout and abused me in several ways. Delir was a massive manipulator, gaslighter, and was verbally abusive and shitty to several of my friends. I was present for several incidents were Puppy was racist, intentionally or not.

But I have no choice to bring this up for context-

Most of these incidents happened on twitter and I no longer have proof or access to them- however, it's VERY easy to search "DelirDecid" and see what is in the search results. I also linked the document with proof in the first post here.

I don't want Werepuppy and Delir's names in my mouth anymore-

He was removed from my mod team because A) he was an awful mod and never present, and B) I didn't trust him for being friends with these people. It turns out my gut was right.

He later accused me of lying. One of my moderators set him straight and he rescinded his statement but never apologized.

Werepuppy harassed me, and painted me as an aggressor for refusing to associate with anyone who continued to support Delir. She was extremely racist and called me terms such as narcissist and arrogant, as well as other users she manipulated into her side.

Lobster was there for all of this.

Werepuppy harassed me and painted as an aggressor for refusing to associate with anyone who continued to support Delir.

Lobster was there for all of this. He was removed from my mod team because A) he was an awful mod and never present, and B) I didn't trust him for being friends with these people.

Regarding Delir, I dated them for several months and broke up with them in September 2022 Lobster watched me the loss of my relationship, and that I had found out as a CSA survivor that my own partner at the time was a predator. I had broken up with Delir immediately.

Lobster constantly gave me unwanted advice even when I asked him not to.

He watched me suffer through multiple instances of abuse, and pretended to support me during racist hate campaigns. I no longer have access to these DMs, I switched Discord accounts to escape a previous abuser.

Further proof that Lobster openly associates with DelirDecid, an outed pedophile, on his twitch.

After he was first called out, Lobster deleted his bluesky account but eventually recreated it. When blocking him this is when I discovered he was following my ex who is a pedophile.

Lobster created an alt account, @ceruleanbisque.bsky.social (now deleted) to vague about me + call me a narcissist.

Note abiove how he went from being kind to straight up using hateful language, including waiting til the day after my birthday- a time he knew where I was anxious- due to my biological family abusing me in the past. I have since escaped.

Lobster also proceeded to harass my mods. This was in October

Lobster openly admits to not respecting my boundaries in the above DMs. In addition, he harassed me by editing his Discord messages to circumvent my block after I found out he had violated my privacy and vented about me to my own friends when I asserted boundaries with him. These are the edits.

I ended my friendship with Lobster in October 2023. I will admit I deleted my half of my Discord DMs to protect myself and remove any personal information. I felt unsafe.

Lobster treated me like a sex object and fetishized me, at one point ONLY contacting me about my services on Fansly.

@abluelobster.bsky.social is a predator and abuser. I knew Lobster for six years. He fetishized me. He routinely violated my boundaries, violated my privacy, and WILLINGLY associates with my ex who was outed as a pedophile, & their racist enabler. 🧵

Proof: docs.google.com/document/d/1...