cait
@cait.bsky.social
texan in ma, austin's mom. i am a real lady and i work at a cemetery
maybe you shouldn't have batch uploaded wrong information and lied to thousands of people about where their loved ones are buried, dumbass
update: it is actually two people who did this and when i asked the forums (lol) if there was a way to do a bulk correction they said "no you have to do them one by one but also don't do too many at once! people don't like getting too many edit requests" do you think i give a fuck
currently in a nasty battle with a lady on find-a-grave who added THOUSANDS of memorial pages for people who were only cremated in our crematory and are not buried here
i hate it here
US slows plans to retire coal-fired plants as power demand from AI surges
https://www.ft.com/content/ddaac44b-e245-4c8a-bf68-c773cc8f4e63
US slows plans to retire coal-fired plants as power demand from AI surges
New technologies are straining power supplies and forcing a shift in plans to reduce use of the fuel source
www.ft.commy favorite is when they tell me i'm ruining society by not letting people use this as a recreational facility
oh they want all of it. cause of death, who signed for the burial, who bought the grave
especially if the person intentionally bought a spot with no marker with full knowledge it would be unmarked!
also, if they were even slightly famous maybe they left the grave unmarked on purpose so people wouldn't find them and be weird about it!!
i get the instinct to want them memorialized but like. it's still not yours!!!!
it's always amateur genealogists or people in the same field of study or art, and they always mean well but like absolutely fucking not
we would need express permission from a member of their actual family in order to do anything anywhere. if they have all also passed or you can't find them, oh well!
sometimes if the person's family never placed a stone or did an inscription for them, people take it as a personal offense
no, you can't see their burial paperwork. no, you can't open their columbarium niche and put stuff in there. no, you can't engrave things or put headstones on their graves. they are still not yours even if the person is dead
it is truly baffling how people think that once someone has been dead long enough, or they reached a certain level of fame or notoriety, they stop being a person and start being History that people think they're entitled to
i've been out in the grounds so much lately that i'm starting to get a tan on my shoulders and arms and i'm like. who the fuck is this
we got married a year and a half ago and i still listen to this all the time lol
some girl on facebook is making up the wildest hypothetical person to argue with me lmfao. just keeps drilling down further and further. she's just hit "maybe she can use facebook but not google"
i need everyone on this website to stop having the stupidest arguments i've ever seen every single day. go outside and feel the sun on your face. none of this matters
not very often! it's much more common to replace a stone so you can add more names on it lol
found a genealogical chart in our records that someone filled out in like 1947 and there's just a straight up cigarette burn in the paper lmaooo
i love when people at work tell me "i don't understand" when they mean "i understand but i don't like it"
i hate when i realize i am making a post referencing something that literally no one is going to understand because it's from a 24 note tumblr post from 5 years ago that nobody gave a shit about but me
god made me allergic to vitamin E in makeup and skincare to humble me. he knew i would be too powerful otherwise, he had to do something
god made me allergic to vitamin E in skincare to humble me. he knew i would be too powerful otherwise, he had to do something
i had to be really sure it was his dick so i watched it until i was convinced and then a few more times after that
